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Gabrielle
Gabrielle
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I can't seem to shake being down.. I just feel unwanted by my husband. Then last night he tells me…

I can't seem to shake being down.. I just feel unwanted by my husband. Then last night he tells me he doesn't want to have sex now because the amount of discharge I get grosses him out.. Cool ✌🏼️ because I can freaking help it! I swear he always says shit like this and it makes me feel horrible. Our anniversary is coming up and I don't even want to celebrate it. I wanted to make him something but now I feel like there isn't a point since it doesn't seem like he appreciates anything anyways. 😕 I wish I wasn't stuck in Italy and could be home with my family..

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bria.k

Bria

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wtf! What an ass. I'm sorry he's being so ridiculous. ): that's horrible.

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gabrielle_d

Gabrielle

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@bria.k, apparently to him I got mad over nothing. I wasn't even really mad just hurt my feelings because he already knows I feel uncomfortable with this big belly. I've been walking, bouncing on a yoga ball and trying things to help our daughter arrive sooner than later so that's why I said about sex but then got that answer 😑

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bria.k

Bria

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Men can be so ignorant lol. Vaginas have discharge. It's natural, it happens. If it grosses you out go date a women whose gone through menopause? I never got that. Like oh no, I have a period?!!! What a shocker? Hahah. I knew my guy was the one when I told him I was on my period and he went down town anyways!! Hahahah.

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bria.k

Bria

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Omg tell him to suck it up and be a man!!

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gabrielle_d

Gabrielle

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@bria.k, right?! He knows I get it and never says anything but now since its towards the end I have a lot more than normal. Which I can't even help 😑 I swear some guys have no heart when it comes to being sensitive especially to someone who is pregnant and already has more emotions lol

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bria.k

Bria

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Ohhh yes. My honey got mad at me last night for crying. Like don't get mad!! That's just gonna make me cry more. Men are so silly. I get a lot of discharge during sex when I'm on top. It doesn't bother my guy but I do usually wipe myself up halfway through because I start getting foamy from the movements and the amount of discharge I have. Plus It doesn't feel as good without some friction haha. Maybe try that?

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mommastone

Kristina

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Wow, how insensitive! Tell him exactly what you said here. If he cares about you he would listen.

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gabrielle_d

Gabrielle

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@bria.k, mine doesn't really come out like that. It's usually just on him when we are done but I'm really sensitive so I have to use a LOT of lube right now or else it feels like my vag is ripping apart. So between that and the discharge it probably does look gross but again I can't help it! Lol @preggerstone I told him how it makes me feel bad about myself and he said sorry.. But he always says that and it never seems like he means it.

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missing468user

missing468user

u better tell him to suck up and be a man he ain't the one that got to carry a baby for 9months us women do me and my future husband 2yr anniversary is coming up in 2 months he doesn't treat me like that he just be a man and tell me how he feels. and he works 2 jobs 1 full-time job at McDonald's and at a warehouse u tell him to suck it up and be a man and that he ain't the one that got to carry a baby for 9months us women do so u tell him to suck it up and be a man I know how u feel girl

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gabrielle_d

Gabrielle

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@niya02isabel, thanks girl! I tried telling him that I didn't make this baby alone. He says not having sex has nothing to do with how I look and maybe it doesn't but it still doesn't make me feel great when he acts like this! I told him if he can't handle discharge then why even be there when I deliver cuz it's gonna be a lot more gross

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missing468user

missing468user

u welcome I do not want to no woman mistreated when they did make some alone he should be man and tell u baby I'm be there for the delivery of our child I'm help u do and do that if u in pain I will give u a foot rub a back rub I would and for baby that's the kind of man he should be

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gabrielle_d

Gabrielle

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@niya02isabel, oh yeah I agree.. I wish he was. Unfortunately he wasn't raised to be affectionate or anything like that so we are very different. There are times he does nice things but then other times it's like he forgets about me and the fact that I'm having our baby

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missing468user

missing468user

like my mom always tell me just stay strong keep Ur head up and just pray about and god will make a way for u him and that beautiful baby that u are carrying of y'alls just keep ur. head stay strong and pray and god will make a for y'all a That beautiful baby that u carrying of y'alls

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