If my baby isn't eating or in my arms she's crying idk what to do. Everyone says it's cause we…

baby wear!

meaning get a baby carrier and wear the baby.

http://www.becomingmamas.com/life-in-the-fourth-trimester/

I do @jomommaclark I just don't understand why she always has to be held

I don't think you spoiled her. I always had my baby in my arms. There's no such thing as spoiling a newborn she just wants you. She only trusts you and feels safe with you. It'll get better with time.

That's what I try to tell everyone I read an article about it. I'm tired of everyone saying that i think I should print the article out for my fam lol. But I hope it gets better soon @scfxo

@kcal12, it will get better soon lol trust me . My son is 3 months now but when he was a newborn it was soooo tiring but it got better ☺️ and yes you do that lol they are wrong!

Thanks @scfxo 😘

it's bc they have to get use to the change.

She is only a month old @jomommaclark I'm hoping it gets better soon my heart just hurts when she cries and sometimes I try not to get frustrated but I can't help it. It's a nice break when dad gets home

I promise it'll get better.

that article has really good information.

Oh thanks @jomommaclark

going thru the exact same thing now except my daughter only 9 days old I hate people telling me I spoil her that's why she Cry's ummm no how could I spoil her at 9 days old....they don't get the baby has been inside us for months they still need to feel the way they felt in our tummy sumtimes this is something new for them as well

http://www.whattoexpect.com/baby-behavior/spoil-a-newborn.aspx read this it's a great article @journeimommy15