I feel so bad for one of my friends. he just found out a month ago that his girlfriend was pregnant,…

How sad!:( that's what pro-choice don't realize...it's all about "rights" but there are 2 other people involved in a pregnancy that have rights as well. The CHILD and the daddy.

exactly! @mommy122015

I think rape should be a reason to get an abortion as well. I was raped when I was 13 and am so thanksful that I didn't get pregnant. I have nightmares still 11 Years later so I can't imagine having to see a baby that looks just like him every day. that may sound messed up but its my opinion.

I do feel so sorry for your friend. that is such a bad feeling, I bet!

I was raped when I got pregnant the first time. I had planned for adoption. I feel that is the only option. but that's just me. I wouldn't condemn a woman who was raped getting an abortion. but I couldn't do it. then I was in a horrible car crash and I lost the baby. I'm still heartbroken by it to this day.

I'm pro choice but that's messed up that she led him to think she would continue the pregnancy then aborted without at least having a discussion with him to let him know she had a change of heart smh

I understand her logic but women usually talk to their significant other. maybe she had an it cause she wasn't ready. maybe she didn't tell him she was getting it cause it may not have been his. I'm sorry your friend has to go through this I think no man should feel this way.

I think everyone deals with rape in their own way. and I'm normally against abortion but I do feel like there are excusable reasons to have one. such as rape or medical issue for you or the baby. but honestly I don't think I could abort my baby even if I did find out that she had health issues. just my personal opinion.

Im pro choice but that is an interesting side of the argument. However, i have never heard of a woman wanting to abort and man wanting to keep. Maybe they can add to the law that both parties need to consent. It sounds like there is more to her story. Maybe it wasnt his and she didnt want to admit

it was his, but honestly he wouldn't have cared if it wasn't. he was thrilled. he wants to be a father. ( the pregnancy wasn't planned, nor was he trying to get her pregnant) he told me that even if it hadn't been his kid it wouldn't have mattered. he would have loved that child regardless. I can understand some points about pro choice but I'm still anti abortion. I've been the static, I've had every reason to abort when I was younger, I chose to let the pregnancy progress, god took that baby from me through a miscarriage from a horrible car crash. I still think about that poor sweet baby that never had a chance. that's what I think of. if you abort do you know what that child had the potential for? that child could have cured cancer, or found a way to reverse Alzheimer disease. but now we will never know, because someone took that life away. I've read about the procedures they use for abortions, what they do to that tiny life inside your body. I cannot reconcile myself to ever think thats a viable option. I made my husband promise me that if it came down to my life, or my son's life that he would save our son. I even made my doctor promise me that. that's how pro life I am. I know I'll never cure cancer. its not my life's path. but who knows what my son's path will be? again. this is just my point of view, and my feelings on the situation, and discussion. I wouldn't force my beliefs on anybody else.

@bamamommy, I can see people aborting due to medical conditions, and if a woman was raped and can't make herself continue the pregnancy because the child was a product of rape, I do. but aborting because you aren't "ready" for a baby is what I can't wrap my head around. I mean just think of all the couple's who are desperate for a baby. find a couple and do an adoption. seriously, don't abort for selfish reasons, that's all I'm saying...

i totally agree. aborting BC you aren't ready is bs. if you weren't ready then you shouldn't be having sex or you should have at least used protection. she probably did it just go hurt him. which is pure evil!

Thats so sad. there should be a law to protect the fetus if the father is against abortion. its not fair, the man is needed to fertilize but then its the women's choice? the laws need to change. but i already see how its very difficult because you cant get a paternity test before baby is born and so many things can go wrong, but still there's always the option of adoption. even with rape. i understand not wanting to see baby but they can just give them up right there when they give birth to someone who would love them, there is just more better loving options then death, hate and destruction. hate on the sinner but don't hate the innocent child.

@yahuahsdaughter, you just put all my feelings into words perfectly.

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Amen to you! Abortion is evil 😈 and murder 🔪 💉