My boyfriend dad and his girlfriend will never watch my kids . how can you have your door closed and…

My boyfriend dad and his girlfriend will never watch my kids . how can you have your door closed and have a kid your suppose to be watching in the living room up on a cell phone tf ? makes no sense and you wonder why your son doesnt like you cause of the things you do not only cause you wasnt in his life but the lifestyle you choose to live . pisses me off !