Ok I need some opinions. (I don't mind opinions) I don't want my child in a daycare but I don't want…

Ok I need some opinions. (I don't mind opinions) I don't want my child in a daycare but I don't want anyone in my family keeping my son either. Am I wrong? I only plan on letting my family from church keep him. Before I go on, I don't like things that my family do. My mom smokes and live with my brother who also smoke and let everybody come in his house so that's definitely a no go. My sister and her boyfriend curse too much and drink. Two more things I don't do and don't want around my baby. I know some people curse but I hate when they curse at children. Those are the only two I have besides my church family. My sister and mom hasn't asked or agreed that they will keep him at all by the way! It's not that I asked, they've never offered. My church family know my baby much more than my sister and mom does and I trust them because they've been the only people besides my husband who support me. My mom has held my baby three times in his three months of living and only one was when she visited me which was when he was a week old All other times I had to go to her because she would never come to see him. I stopped going over my sister house because she doesn't visit us either. So once again am I wrong?