I've really been in my feelings lately... I'm still unsure of the venue for my baby shower and now…
I've really been in my feelings lately... I'm still unsure of the venue for my baby shower and now the date in general and this is all getting to me and even making me rethink taking maternity pictures because my situation with child's father is really pressing and I'm just not in a place where I'm as happy... And to top it off the only person I really have to talk to is my mom and don't get me wrong I love her and cherish our relationship but I wish I had one friend who I could talk to that would understand how I'm feeling 😕
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (7 нед.)
I'm sorry for what u are going through. whatever u do dont miss ur maternity shots i did for my first because of personal problems too and i regret it. i have no memories to show my baby now with my belly in a nice setting. atleast take some diys but take some
Jasmin·
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@yahuahsdaughter, that's what I'm thinking about doing... Nothing major just something I can have for memories
STARBRIGHT·
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Wow u feel just like me.. It makes me not even want a shower anymore. He's being picky in everything I want. Smh. I'm only doing this now because I wanna remember it.
Jasmin·
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@nishika900, the worse part is he isn't giving anything for any of this. It's mostly coming out of my pockets and my moms. He hasn't helped look for a place and when he says he's gonna do something he doesn't come through with it and it all started with him saying he was gonna at least give half of the money for the 4D pics and the day before he's like "I can't do it" I just am losing any faith I had in him.
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (7 нед.)
i know how that is it really sucks. some men are real jerks and only care about themselves and saving money. but dont realize this is an investment these are special memories in time from ur family to cherish and remember. my hubby is like this also. i have to ask him more than once to convince him to help out. this time around i will be prepared and start saving up my money. its just not fair. they should help too because its their child also.
Jasmin·
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@yahuahsdaughter, right. It's depressing because I was in no way prepared to have a baby and the fact that I lost my job like 2 weeks after I found out and haven't found work since makes it even harder sometimes