I need some opinions on something..my daughters birthday is October 17th and I'm scheduled to have…

I need some opinions on something..my daughters birthday is October 17th and I'm scheduled to have my csection October 14th so I'll still be in the hospital on her birthday.. we want to have a diaper party for our new baby girl and a birthday party for my oldest baby girl..my question is what do y'all think about having them the same day just one a little earlier than the other..BC all my family is out of town and I would hate to have to different partys and some miss one..we are throwing my oldest daughter party the 11th the weekend before so she can have a big birthday party then a little one at the hospital