so my boyfriend is having bad feelings about me having a c-section done on Tuesday, how do I get him…

Tell him he can be there and even watch. It literally takes less than 10 mins after they prep you. It's quick! Recovery is no fun but he can be your support and help you. I had one Aug 24th and it will be okay. 😊

He knows he can be there he is concerned that something will go wrong

I would tell him this is what doctors do. You aren't the first to get it done. And if there was a risk your doctor wouldn't allow it. I'm guessing It's better for you and baby so I would tell him that

Tell him to pray nothing will! Tell him to be positive for you

@jrose114, funny that u mentioned that lol he has been told that but he is an army vet and thinks he knows it all lol I love him to death but he is so paranoid plus he is bummed out since he can't cut the cord but I'm keeping it a surprise that I'm gona let him have first contact with our little girl

He will love that.

My husband is so paranoid even about just labor he thinks of the worse

omgosh I hear you on that lol

Lol you got to love them though 😊

I'm guessing it's more risky for you to go through actual labor and so a c-section is a result of that. I had to have one with my first due to that. Just explain to him that the doctors know it's what's best for you and the baby. Every surgery has its risks but so does every Labor. Either way there are risks. Reassure him that everything is going to be ok and that the doctors are going to do what they do best(: and I literally was up and walking the next day after my c-section. My Obgyn is amazing and gave me the best advice and told me that the sooner I got up and walking and moving the easier and less painful the recovery would be. She was 100% right! I had ZERO pain and didn't miss a beat at all. I could walk and hold my son and pick him up myself. Even tho I had a lot of help it was nice having the freedom also after having a surgery.