Oh I know. my hubby works 6 days a week we both r over exhausted but I mean just cut we both r tired doesn't mean stop talking to each other about the thing we need to get done for r children. I've been saying for the longest time I need me time n he thinks that me time us going n doing chore a while he watch a the kids.

Yeah it's like they need a warning or else they get all defensive

I tried started the conversation by say hun I got stuff on my chest that I need to get off n I really need u to listen to. n he goes OK then talk so I do n it starts a fights

I know right if I have to vent I know it will start a fight. So now I tell him babe I need to tell you something but I don't want to fight about it and it has worked surprisingly