I have a question.. so, my boyfriends (and father of my child) ex, (which he also has a child with)…

Maybe she's just insecure and worried he will favor you over her , but in my opinion if her and your boyfriend are co parenting and you are a serious part of your boyfriends life and not a random girl I don't think she has a right to ask you to stop because to that little boy you are family

exactly. like, I am serious in ah's life.. for goodness sake I'm carrying his little brother. now I'd understand if I was a random girl that was just a booty call, but william plans on having me around for a looking time... our baby was planned. but she's still freaking out about pictures... it makes me so frustrated... @brandylemonds15

Some mothers feel easily threatened by the craziest things !! She should be happy that you treat her son so well and are taking the time to form a bond with him for example my dad just remarried and we've known the woman forever I babysat her kids but anytime my brother and sister visits my dad she treats them horrible yet she wants my daughter to call her grandma ... I understand why my mom gets up set but in AH's case she needs to be thankful and suck it up

Does AH have any other siblings from his mom ? She may also be worried since he's close with you and obviously going to love his little brother that he may want to stay with you and your boyfriend

like, I'm super nice to him, I'm also super nice to his mother... no matter how much of a bitch she is... anyway. I'd do anything for that kid. and it's not like he mistakes me for her, he knows the difference between mommy, and andrea. @brandylemonds15

And no, ah doesn't have any other siblings, the than the one I'm pregnant with... as far as I know.. @brandylemonds15

I don't take pictures of my boyfriends kids. we do family pictures but I don't post them to fb. I don't see the harm in taking pictures I do kinda get the not posting them thing. but I don't post of fb anyway

But I don't think it's right that her new bf is allowed to take pictures of him, but I'm not.. that's what has me so upset. like, if neither of us were allowed.. cool, that's fine.. but I'm not, and he is... @steph11

I am starting to have a feeling that AHs mom is jealous. I mean why would he be able to and u not?

That's what I want to know.. like why is it such a big deal to her.. william has said that he doesn't care, and I can do whatever... (But of course I'm going to respect the child's mothers wishes) but that's a huge do u leave standard.. @zoeysmommy54

I wouldn't guess anything but that. a very small percent could be that she could be scared like the mommy said up there earlier in the comments but then again it's good for u to bond with him. you are technically family to AH.

thank you guys. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy for thinking the way I was..

I agree. that's how my bfs ex wife is. I just recently am now allowed to watch her kids after I had my baby because she said because I didn't have a child I didn't know how to care for one but her bf had been able to the whole time and he aways has issues and the kids don't listen to him it's bad

lol, if she ever told me I didn't know how to care for a child... I'd laugh in her face and call her stupid. lmao #sorrynotsorry @steph11

@mermaidmommy I actually just dealt with this same situation. and even though it irritated me that I was being treated unfairly compared to her bf I just stopped posting them and after awhile my bf posted a few and I asked her about it after a few months and she eventually became ok with it. It's hard but I know from experience best thing you do is keep peace gotta look out for the children's best interest 😊

I've never spoken to her or met her. i could hear there conversation. yeah it was like the second Sadie was born I was allowed to do more with them. I don't get it. it was harder now luckily Sadie is super easy and happy all the time it's not big deal