I'm feeling emotional today like me and the father of my child have been spending quite some time…

same thing is going on with me... I would ask him where is no harm in it.. better now then never. sit down and have a conversation and let him how what you want and how you feel

it like I feel stupid ...because I want to enjoy the moments we are having and I feel like if I bring it up he is gonna get mad and retract...or hurt my feelings...idk... I just really don't know...I've never been a. punk like this before...I usually speak my mind when it comes to mean...but with him its hard idky @misschristinaashley25 and now having a baby by him makes it harder

ask! you deserve a answer

@gabrielle1128, ok I have to prepare for this...I have another ultrasound appt next week so more than likely we will spend the day together I guess I'll bring it up then

good, because its not right if he is leading you on like that.

you shouldn't feel stupid like you need to know where yall stand. you have feelings and yes having a child does make it that harder but there is no need to play with your emotions if he doesn't really want something with. I think you should most definitely ask him but prepare yourself just in case he doesn't give you the answer you want.

I think you should just ask him what direction is this going? You guys are about to bring a life and that you would like to bring this life into situation where is stable, and defined.. That it would provide stability for all parties involved.. Tell him he doesn't have to tell you right now but you'd appreciate if he would start taking what you want into consideration and if that is something he sees happening also... Give yourself a deadline as to when you think you deserve an answer and if it's not given I really suggest you start making choices on your own.. Don't be anyone's play thing

@misschristinaashley25, I feel like I probably won't get the answer I want...because if that was the case he would've said something about us being together by now

.... its just confusing he kisses me...cuddles...cooks for me...sings... we dance & wrestle.. crack jokes.. watch movies together... ugh aye yi yi I just don't know... @gabrielle1128

@isa238375, thanks I will do that

Good luck girl... And remember it will be his loss if he chooses to not be around... And there will be a man that's worth it in the future 👍🏻😉

@isa238375, awww thanks

I agree with the other women. Sit down and discuss it with him. You may not get the answer you want, but it's not right for him to continue to string you along. It sounds like he wants all the benefits of a relationship with no title, which isn't right since you want to have a relationship with him. If he gets upset or doesn't want the relationship, then I think you should consider keeping things strictly cordial. It'll send him the message that he either dates you or move on. He may realize that he actually does want to be together and come running back. Just my two cents.

@sonyaxcx, awww thanks