so my sister in laws finally talked to me about baby shower and I learned I don't get a say so in…

yes that's too late because babies come early!! try to convince her to do it earlier... like a month before the baby if possible!!

woooaahh!!! hold the horses a week before you deliver!? 1 you will not feel good or feel like dressing up 2 it's hard to sir or stand that long for baby showers 3 they need to consider your schedule first and 4 the earlier the better!

I had mine at 38 weeks and had my son that night

With my daughter my baby shower was planned at 36 wks I went into labor that night and had my daughter the next morning so I didn't get my baby shower.. I honestly think doing it any time after 36 wks is pushing it.. And you probably will be so miserable and just want to rest as much as possible.. Maybe try talking her into doing it a week or two earlier then that

Mine is 6 days before my due date I'll be 39 weeks. I'm having the same worries as you. I'll literally have only a few days to get ready. I haven't bought anything because I was waiting. I guess we will see when little man decides to come

how are the plans for u going still a week before ?. omg. they are so dumb. but just enjoy. if it becomes a welcome baby party all well. just get wat baby essentials u need first mayb three weeks before due date

@yummycake moved the baby shower up so now it's this Saturday yay :)

yay! im so happy for you. yeah its smart to not do baby shower too close to due date. :) yea!