Well I guess I'm in this alone

Join the club. My ex is like one day he wants to be apart of his daughters life the next he doesn't -!: # he don't get why I want her last name to be mine not his...

@aprilcgutkopf, well that's dumb it's not that he doesn't wanna be in her life he's just starting to treat me really shitty

Oh see your lucky then! My ex comes in and out of my life and it's not that I can't deal with it but it's going to hurt our daughter in the long run. Worst part is we only broke up three or 4 weeks ago and I so in love with him it hurts. He says one minute he wants to be nice to me only for our baby but then when I say something he doesn't like, like how I want her to have my last name he gets all upset and says he dosnt want to be apart of our daughters life. It's getting to the point idk what to do.... @sofiasmomma

But yeah when a man treats you shitty it's almost as bad so I am sorry your dealing with that Hun! Keep your chin up!

@aprilcgutkopf, well I woke my husband up for work and he went and I woke up to an ugly text message and things like that have started popping ip

Yeah it only gets worse from there, it won't be easy but it will be best for the child too.

@sofiasmomma,

I think I'm to the point to where we're just going to coparent

@aprilcgutkopf,

That works, it's better that way I going to have to do it that way too