ladies I need help tmi kinda but I just caught my bf watching porn should I be mad or should I give him some im confused…

He was watch pregnant porn tho

Masturbation is so natural, and while most women can do it easy without porn, men don't have the imagination lol. My SO never jacked off or watched porn while we were together until I got pregnant and too nauseous to please him, so I told him if he needs to, to relieve himself lol. I couldn't do it so I'd rather him do it himself than being sexually frustrated. It's a normal thing to do, really. I couldn't be mad at him for something that's so natural. But to each their own. Set boundaries, talk about things. If it makes you uncomfortable let him know but don't punish him for it. Especially if yall have never talked about it before and he didn't know it wasn't ok with you.

me and my boyfriend both watch porn together

take control

my man watches porn it don't make me mad lol cause I know he'll never meet them lol or anything lol he's aloud to look but no touch of other females. idc if he whacks it lol. it's normal. I watch porn too. but when I want it I pull his junk out and play with him tmi I know sorry. but he gets the hint then you got to be literal cause men don't get hints period.

Literally every red blooded male watches porn...if he says he doesn't he's most likely lying to you about it. In my eyes yeah it's not something you want to think about them doing all the time or actually see them doing but it's better than him cheating on you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Tbh I'm not worried about porn but every couple is different. Him and I both have our own "private time" and it has nothing to do infidelity and I know that sometimes he really isn't in the mood and sometimes I'm not... It doesn't mean anything that's just how people can be sometimes

Yea I would talk to him and see what the reason for it was.

I would be very angry. if you are throwing yourself at him and he ignores you but goes to porn there is a problem. personally I think it's bad all around but most especially now.

My husband has a whole collection. I do not mind.

Hoooollly crap, sorry for the 100 posts!!

lol my ex does that but he's always been faithful just weird that he watched pregnant porn...I don't think it's bad

Personally I don't mind it, it used to bother me a lot until we had been separated and couldn't have sex like that so I would even pleasure myself here and there. I agree that it's something that you would have to decide if it's serious for an argument or not. Too me I'd rather him please himself off a screen of girls he could never have then to see him please it off cheating. I wouldn't make it a big deal, but of course If its bothering you then you should talk to him about it.

It really depends on your relationship and what your comfortable with. My fiance and I both watch porn and we both know about it. It's never been a problem but we have always been completely open about it.

but we as a couple talked and decided it doesn't bug us. But we also never hide it and there has never been cheating.

I think the best thing to do us not panic and talk to him. of course if you're not comfortable with it that's totally OK but just sit down and calmly talk about it. Definitely make it clear your not OK with it and that should end it

@vicnik, @arielle I stole his phone and laptop he not getting em back

oh I'd be mad too. my boyfriend always jokes about it and I get so pissed. he doesn't watch it thankfully. but it always makes me feel like if he would watch it, like I'm not good enough for him to where he needs to go watch shit like that. I'd def bring it up to him.

I personally would be really mad. But that's me, I've seen girls post on here who don't care about that, so you have to figure out if that bothers you or not. I would ask him why he was watching it, cause that can poison the mind and make it to where you prefer that over real sex with your partner. I would nip it in the bud before it becomes an issue.