Is it just me or does this upset anyone else... When you let someone know some information then they…
Is it just me or does this upset anyone else... When you let someone know some information then they go out an post it all over fb for everyone to know... Like I told you so you didn't feel left out (my mother in law).... An yet she feels the need to spread it ok I get your excited so am I.. It's my child but doesn't mean I want everyone to know everything! Plus that's my job to inform people to post details like it's my kid! Kinda makes me sad hurts my feels like my joys being stole cuz someone else is doing all this just really pisses me off... Sorry for the rant but lovely to wake up to this crap..
🎀Jacqui🎀·
that would bother me too at least let you be the first one to post it! :/
kayla·
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@mrscruz0530, ya that's why I told my bf were not telling her or showing her anything else until we like did what we were going to with the info also told him to tell her to stop doing that stuff cuz it stresses me out I shouldn't be in a hurry or stressed out about all this she should be patient an let ya do what we want to first
new mama Chicago·
I know how u feel. My mother in law has a big mouth. I have learned the hard way, I don't tell her anything I don't want other people to know. I have also warned my husband to be careful what he tells her about our household. She asks questions like she's concerned but really she's just nosey!!! So annoying
kayla·
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@babyn2015, oh yup this ones nosy for sure my moms total opposite she don't even have a fb an doesn't blab her mouth ugh so stressful like she's the stress with dating her son it ant even him half the time..
new mama Chicago·
We didn't even tell her we were expecting until I was 13 weeks when we where ready to tell family and friends lol. We just pretended that we had no idea for the whole 13 wks 😂😂😂. Meanwhile we told my mom the moment we found out and she never said a word to anyone.
missing75user·
I think it's every mil I can't stand it like good your excited but don't tell others it's our own news
kayla·
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@babyn2015, ya pretty sad when you have to do that with someone cuz there noisy an rude.. @gabbii yup.... This why I keep getting stressed an depressed like my joys being stole cuz I don't even get to do those things an omg I sware if she does stuff like his first hair cut or things like that cuz I could deff see that happening I'm gunna be heart broken this is not her place she is a grand parent yes but this is my child! An my first at that an I'm glad there all there for us an what not but tech she's not even bio related not that that matters but still
missing75user·
I told her already that she isn't allowed to come over every day and they are only allowed over once a week and only when my husband is over, I'm not gonna deal with her tryna take over as mother, It's my first as well and I'm not gonna miss out on anything bc she wants to be in everything, @kmrie I mean I know I probably came off as rude but it's my family my home so my rules,
kayla·
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@gabbii, no I get it I mean I feel like I'm comming off as rude to but then I think no who cares! Cuz I'm not gunna miss out on l that stuff! I'd be the same way an I don't think it's being selfish either like she had kids an that was her time to be that way now it's mine an ya luckly this one prob won't be over all the time cuz we live a bit away from here but I also better not be hearing about her conplaining cuz she don't see him everyday too like chick his gunna be a new born that needs his mommy an it's not like in gunna be out all over anyway yourl see him when we visit an make rounds..
missing75user·
exactly! but your lucky, mine lives across the street, it was so bad to the point that they would all just walk into my house without knocking, it was so annoying finally I told them it's not cool, and to make it worse she would dump her other 2 kids at our house and we would have to cancel plans, I'm just nervous to see how things get when I have the baby, she's gonna complain expect it, mine complained cause I said my mom was going to my appointment next friday with me, and she threw the biggest fit and said it was her grandchild too so she has the right to go, like how childish,
kayla·
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@ganbii, oh jeeze ya so annoying an yup she's just as childish as that i agree an oh I no it's comming I just pray I can get through it an stand up for myself an not let her do things cuz she's a bitch an she will just do what she wants an my more kept to myself but shouldn't have to be gunna be a parent now an I have the right