I'm done with love. how can someone be all happy go lucky and the next say they don't love you no…

I'm in the same boat

@nannii1920, it frustrates me. he created this situation we are in but doesn't want to see it that way

I hate to tell you but that's not love, love doesn't change. That's just one thing and one thing only, selfishness. It's selfish desires.

exactly , my bf left Friday, he wanted to be single & choose social media n different hoes over me n his baby . So it's pretty sad smh but he says I'm the controlling one lol

@nannii1920, I will be alone at my birth. @tater4414 he wants to be free so I have to let him go. we are getting a divorce

I'm sorry you are going through this. Selfish desire always hurt the ones closest too us. @awayne if you need someone to vent too I'm here for you.

Wow that's so sad ): @awayne I'm so sorry . I'm still debating if my child should get his last name now that we aren't together n left me pregnant out of all the times he could have left

@nannii1920, my son isn't getting his last name. he doesn't deserve that privelage to have this child. I feel the same way about my husband. you had so many times and chances to leave bit you wait until I'm pregnant. he's scared of the responsibility

Exactly !! I think that's how my bf is , plus the fact that he doesn't want to be tied down after almost 2yrs , like ok ? Smh so frustrating . I've been so stressed n haven't spoke to him at all. Deleted all my social sites n he's tryna contact me but I think he just wants to talk about the split .

@nannii1920, all me and my husband have to talk about is our business account and putting our things in storage

Is this his first time telling you he doesn't love you or wants a divorce ? Do you think he'd change his mind or you would give him a second chance ?

I am sorry you are going through this, I know some men reacts to their significant others differently then others. I know our hormones are running crazy right now maybe you nothing could sit with your spiritual advisor or a counselor before calling it quits. Sometimes we say things we really mean in the heat of an argument. I know I don't know you both but I hope this helps.. I will be praying for you both.

@andream35, he doesn't want to work things out. its not me its him. he's not in love with me anymore

I am so sorry to hear that, please be strong for your little ones. Just remember to pray because it does changes things..

@andream35, thanks I've been praying