so my ex (not the father of my child, the guy I was dating before him) owes me about 1000$. while we…
so my ex (not the father of my child, the guy I was dating before him) owes me about 1000$. while we were together I paid for his car to get out of impound twice due to expired tags (about 170 each time), I bought him a cell phone and paid for his first month of T-Mobile because his contract with AT&T was shut down due to his ex girlfriend still being on the contract and she wouldn't buy out her bit and wasn't paying her half, and while I was in Korea and he was here in Germany I sent him 200$ to buy stuff he needed for a career progression military school. the plan was when I got to Germany we were gonna get married, then about 5 months before I was due to show up, he decides to cheat on me at a super bowl party at his boss's house. I wasn't going to worry about getting the money back, but then I got pregnant by the guy I dated after him (who has been no support) and I really need the money and I asked if I could get it back. he said yes, he'd have it after a field exercise. he got back from the exercise last week, and when I asked him about the money, he said some personal stuff came up and he won't have all of it but he'll give me what he can. cool fine that's awesome. then about 20 minutes ago he posted on our post's bst page that he was looking to buy a couch. wtf? I'm supposed to be meeting him on Thursday to get whatever he has for me, and he's gonna get a huge piece of my mind. the man is 22, and if he hadn't been such a giant prick, I never would have had the opportunity to be in the situation that I'm in now because I wouldn't have had any sex in Korea period. oh and about 2 weeks before we broke up we bought rings for each other and they both got sent to him. when I got here he tried giving me mine back saying he loves me and wants to be with me one day, and then I found out from his ex he dated after me that he left the ring I got for him in the PX parking lot, but tried telling me he still had it. I'm so tired of him and his bullshit and I almost wanna say fuck the money and punch him in the face and kick him in the dick.
demeshia·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (35 нед.)
take him to court!!!
LenaBear·
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I don't have any receipts from any of it because, at the time, I thought I was helping the guy I was going to marry out of financial trouble
LenaBear·
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@memeboo08,
demeshia·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (35 нед.)
oh, it sucks but if he is going to keep giving u the ran around and u don't have time for that. just pray on the situation and something else will work out becus accepting him to keep his word seems like a waste of time. and by the time he does do something it will probably be to late. there are alot of programs that can help u out depending on where u stay.
LenaBear·
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we're both in the army and live in Germany @memeboo08 I got my first ever credit card to finance furnishing a house because I've lived in the barracks for 4 years and have never had my own furniture, and to have a cushion for if I get deployed short notice and have to fly my baby to my parents. and I really honestly don't expect him to keep his word after all the shit he's put me through and all the lies I've caught him in. I was hoping he'd be a decent honest person for like the first time in his life but I'll find out Thursday if it's actually happening