My daughter is now 5 months. Why I choose not to pierce her ears is because I want her to choose when she's older if she wants them done or not. My parents insist that she needs them done because everyone and their daughters get them done. I'm not everyone for one and I choose to wait. And also what irks my nerve is speaking about if I have a boy in the future that I do not want him to get circumcised, my reasons make valid points yet it's not what my parents minds work. I couldn't do cloth diapers because they thought it was a waste, now I am getting a lecture for wanting to go to all natural disposable diapers. Come on now, I'm 24. Let me raise my child as I please, advice from them is always welcomed but chancing the way I want to raise my daughter is disrespectful and kind of hurtful.