My SO and I have a great relationship. He's honestly my best friend but when it comes time to talk…

My SO and I have a great relationship. He's honestly my best friend but when it comes time to talk about an issue then its a problem. I'm the bad guy and the pessimist because of me we can't have a good day. *face palm* last time I checked a relationship is going to hit some road blocks and we address them because we need to move on from them, not act like it doesn't exist in the name of having a "good day" like don't ask me what's wrong if you don't want to talk about what's wrong 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I just think that's so unhealthy and I'm tired of unhealthy