My SO is seriously driving me crazy !! He gets so annoyed w/ me when I ask him to hold our son ! Like seriously I wish he would help out some more !! When I ask for help he always gives me the same response: " I'm tired from work " like I'm not tired from caring for our son ?!! Seriously ?!! Like today he wouldn't even come along for a walk with our baby ?!!!
I'm in ypur same boat.. except I work too... I didn't before... trust me... taking care of the baby all day is waaaay better than having to work all day and then coming home to a cranky baby because his father doesn't have as great parenting skills as u do.