But also on the note of having an amazing husband I think I should point out that i think it's…
But also on the note of having an amazing husband I think I should point out that i think it's necessary to try to be an amazing wife!
👰👰👰just had this talk on Facebook.
If you want a man who is gonna treat you right, you gotta treat him right! If you want your man to treat you like a queen you gotta treat him like a king and not a peasant!
To many people forget relationships need to work both ways! If you want your partner to be all kinds of amazing for you you gotta for them! 💏💏💏
Now I know this app is mostly pregnant women and women who do work hard raising children and of course you deserve credit and some slack for that because it's a tough ass job to do all day everyday but you can't just let it go like that!
I was online today reading a girls post about how she was mad her man didn't want to go out with her to buy her dinner.
Well as I was reading all her comments it was pointed out (and agreed to by her) that the house was a wreck, the baby wasn't changed or bathed or fed, the dog had torn up a bunch of stuff she just left and a few other things. And when her man got home from a 9 hour work day she had him do all those things.
Well damn of course he didn't want to go out he's tired!
Of course I know we can't make everything perfect all the time and I don't mean we have too (but I know this girl personally and she's always doing this)
😲😲
I guess what I'm saying (and I'm hoping I'm not gonna get hate for this but I did on Facebook) you don't gotta be a servant for your partner or anything like that but if you expect a spectacular man, maybe you gotta try to be a bit more than basic!
Sarah·
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I agree guys like to be spoiled also just in different ways like back rubs and home cooked meals and all that
Amanda·
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exactly! its just the little things sometimes :) @sofiasmomma
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (4 нед.)
i agree somewhat but not all man respond the same..my hubby when i treat him like a king, cook, clean and do all those things he still treats me like a peasant in a way. he only does the bed which is basically pulling and tucking the sheets and he doesn't thank me for anything i do. i am also responsible for everything about the baby unless i ask for his help he won't go out of his way to help me with her even right in front of his face. sometimes i feel like he just wants everything easy and comfortable but he can't do that for me!?
when i start being a little mean and careless about his stuff like making hin breakfast and giving him all the attention then he starts acting like a spoiled brat because he is so used to it but still doesn't help me and instead complains.
what would you gals do in this situation.
Amanda·
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Well that's definitely not right either. my post was kinda worded one way but I definitely just meant both people involved have to work for it.
That's hard I'm sorry hun. I've been in relationships where the other person just doesn't seem to notice what you try to do for them. I've never personally had a relationship like that work out. If he didn't change when you stopped trying to do extra for him I'd say it's definitely time to sit down and have a serious talk with him. You deserve to be treated equally! @yahuahsdaughter
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (4 нед.)
thanks hun. i will definitely try. its like i am his momma and hes a big baby
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (4 нед.)
and im the younger one