can i get an opinion on what yall would do..... so I had my sons dad put on child support in 2010 and he was paying for a while and then he didn't have a job and he told me he was struggling and having a hard time and we were kind of trying to be together again but it didn't work but anyways he lost his license and then no job and he asked if I would cancel the child support and he would pay me 200 a month, the cs order was only 264 a month and I didn't want to be the evil baby mama so I went and canceled it and since then he only pays me 100 a month here and there and I remember one time I asked him for money for car insurance and he said I support my son not you. so it was canceled in 2013. this year I decided to Redo it and I went to reapply but then the cs people told me that it was never completely closed because money was owed so they said he owes me 13,000 in back child support. is it wrong to get him for back child support even though I thought I had canceled it??