I really feel like my mom favors my sis and honestly, she always has. Now, my sis is pregnant too…
I really feel like my mom favors my sis and honestly, she always has. Now, my sis is pregnant too (we just found out 2 days ago) and I am scared that mom is going to favor my sister's children over mine. I mean, she already has a hard time remembering that she has 3 grandchildren, not 2. I know my son was adopted before we could really have a relationship with him but he is still her grandchild. It makes me want to detach from my mom and sis completely if not most of the way just to spare my baby girl from knowing the pain of not being equal.....it makes me really sad.....like, I wanna cry right now.....it's crazy what you hear people talk about when they think you are asleep and can't hear them talking about you.
unknown·
just take a couple of deep breaths
if that still doesn't work it's ok to cry
and remember that it will be ok♡
Jennifer·
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thank you. I am doing that now and knowing that I'm not alone makes it easier to deal with.
Mariela·
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you know just try to get that thought off your head. sometimes when we think something it stays there replaying until it manipulates our entire being. maybe it's not how you think..or maybe it is... but how does that help you and your children? be positive and remember blood doesn't always mean everything. find close friends or honestly just stick to Jesus! he always comforts me. Even at times when I cry. plus remember there's not ONE person on this earth who hasn't said anything about someone else. I talk to my mom about my sister at times. and she to me. as I'm sure they've talked about what bothers them about me lol. sometimes that's ok. but we still bond and just shrug it off. try to rebuild that relationship if u can. but if the hurt it's causing is toooo much to bare (because no way should anyone feel emotionally abused) then do what you got to do. but otherwise move on and don't let the devil steal your thunder! sometimes that's all he does is play mind games. and if we fall for it we could become victims for YEARS. BE blessed.
Jennifer·
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Thank you. I seriously appreciate that.