so now my bf tells me he doesn't want to pay for the venue for the baby shower after we've had…

so now my bf tells me he doesn't want to pay for the venue for the baby shower after we've had number of arguments abt this damn shower . he kept saying I don't want anyone to pay for anything I don't want help from yur family. and now he's like I'm not paying for anything and I don't care whether there's a baby shower or not yur family can do it for yu. this whole time I'm telling my family that he's gonna pay for this and that and now he's reneging. 😒😒😒😒😒😒😠😠😠😠😠😠