Well I thought I was going to have a relaxing day with my friend. We went to the park and she is…
Well I thought I was going to have a relaxing day with my friend. We went to the park and she is over talking to someone while i wait in the car. I look in to my side mirrors and see MY CHILDS FATHER walking up to my car!!! I haven't seen him since may so I was freaking out. He opens up my car door and GETS INSIDE. Like we are friends and nothing has ever happen! 😷 I was like wtf are you doing in my car!?! He starts ranting about a DNA test and I'm like well I don't need one. He says well How will I know shes mine? I said idk& idk. He could probably see I was getting ready to cry (its a sensitive subject to me) so he gets out. I was so shocked at the whole situation I didn't even get to say what I needed to say to him. Now I am having all kinds of mixed emotions again.😖 this is not what I needed. & what is he thinking just HOPPINNG in my car!!!! 😑
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
He may have set it up with your friend to be able to talk to you
alayna22·
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@reaganmommy2015, he was walking his dog in the park, and my friend doesn't ever talk to him.😐
varduim·
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I was thinking the same thing as @reaganmommy2015, that sounds like a big coincidence for him to happen to be at there at the same time & while your friend stepped away. Sorry you had to deal with that!
alayna22·
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It is a small Kansas town lol. I watched him leave and saw that he met up with a group of guys. Its okay I am just tempted to shoot him a text now and see if he wants to talk but that would be a horrible idea I'm sure. @varduim
varduim·
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You will have to talk sooner or later, so maybe you should text him & see what he says. Esp since he approached you today. Is he a calm/reasonable person? Or are you worried that things might escalate?
alayna22·
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Ive sent him 7 facebook messages since may and the last one was a month and a half ago. Our daughter sonogram pictures. He has never responded. He is the party type. He also has a trashy girlfriend and Im not sure if she monitors his messages and stuff. Usually he only says "nothing to say until a dna test". 😞 not sure what to do, usually this is pushed into the way back of my mind because I am emotional about it lol @varduim