Real life question.... Slight rant I scroll down my timeline and I see ppl complaining about living…
Real life question....
Slight rant
I scroll down my timeline and I see ppl complaining about living conditions. like I live with my boyfriend's family all they do is smoke weed or...I live with my mom n she's telling me what to do...not ever do I see anybody say they were forced to conceive but I see a lot of complaining and no action...
you know sex makes a baby right?
you know you can always work a job and get your own place right? You lease your rules. sitting on an app complaining while someone else pays all your bills doesn't fix anything. What's the purpose of complaining about someone else taking care of you? Why just sit and be miserable? I've seen 15 year olds get a diploma and get a good enough job to move out n support their child
maybe it's just me...but rant over
beautifulangel·
Girl I agree!!! Don't like how your life is change it!!! Complaining doesn't get you anywhere in life...
Ayana·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
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Judy (Judith)·
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also sometimes its not quit that easy to just move when yu are put on bedrest from your dr and is forces to leave your job because of your pregnancy and have no source of income until after the baby is already here. everyones situation is different and not as easy as others. and most people arent complaining they are venting and this app gives people that ear they need or the support system they dont quite have with people in there real world life. I understand where you are coming from but like I said everyones situation is different. just my opinion.
Honey·
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@mariahs_mama right however that should be considered before getting pregnant. it's the responsible adult thing to do. be concerned about the life you're bringing into the world prior to creating
Judy (Judith)·
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@islandftm, I do agree with yu but some dont plan their pregnancy. in my current situation I planned my pregnancy but I had everything figured out but because of certain setbacks things happen me personally will get back to where I need to be but I didnt plan tjings to happen in my life to throw me off track but they have and only I pay for it. but everyones entitled to their own opinion so just like yu are I am as well. just feel instead of bashing another for the things they go threw maybe your supportive words could help them.
Honey·
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@mariahs_mama my post wasn't intended to offend or bash as you say. If something happens that's life. I'm not saying a planned pregnancy is better however I'm asking what's complaining going to do to make the situation better? You can be on bedrest and still not complain. it seems some ppl come seeking pity or something. It's just some seem to have put as much thought into having a child as they do breathing. That's the part I don't understand. I'm not in anybody's life or pockets but when ppl voluntarily put their life story on here naturally ppl will form opinions
Judy (Judith)·
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people dont put it to complain they put it to vent to recieve advice to know that there is someone out there who cares to them this is like a support group. like I said tho I do understand what yu are saying and everyone has there own opinions.