I've got to vent........ So my Fiancé and I bought a house back in October, we got the loan in his…

Not if the dog is gonna destroy your house

I say give it a try if you really need the help go for It. just make sure he know and understand the rules before moving in. your not his mom or maid he can clean after his self

I would tell both of them we will give this a try. If it doesn't work out then he has to move. I would give him the rules very clearly of what his responsibilities are so there will be no question or no 'Well I didn't know'. And I would tell them to both him and your fiancé. Make sure you are clear on what you want and expect of him to help out with around the house. And I would stress that this is only on a Trial Basis.... Good Luck

I'd let it happen and let it be an I told you so moment that speaks for itself. I wouldn't even stress it because he'll see he should've listened to you. I'd tell him exactly how you feel and put the ball back in his court because it's true you need the extra help but he doesn't want it to be him just as bad as you. There's a part of him that knows better but he doesn't wanna be the one to say no, that's why he leaves you to be the bad guy. If he still ends up saying yes YOU come up with the rules and conditions

I wouldnt if I were you. he's going to steal your joy and ruin your house with a dog and especially if he's disrespectful. NO your not a b for it either. step your foot down and don't let them walk all over u

@ce5ce That's the way I was thinking as well. I tell him "I told you so" alot!!! And yes we could probably use that extra money in our pocket with baby coming and all, but I'm afraid it will end bad because of my crazy raging hormones. Thank you so much for your insight :) I somewhat feel better about it I reckon!

I wouldn't, don't put stress on yourself!! if he already leaving a place in a bad situation, he's the problem.

If you do, Sit ground rules. it's your home, you have the right too. if he can't follow them he can't stay.

@sexxymama83 @ariclark90 @ce5ce @parbear If he is paying "rent" then can I honestly give him rules? Because my rule list runs deep! For example, I don't want strange people in my home, no drinking, the dog will be kept in a kennel while he is gone, clean after himself, no cussing in front of my kidds(he has a nasty mouth) , and he is to help with lawn care, has to clean his bathroom, pick up after himself and do his own laundry! Is that to much to ask of him?? I have my babies that come first so of course i would have alot of Do's and Dont's!!!

yea these hormones drive me insane as well. It's worse after baby for me so I understand. regardless take it easy though because at the end of the day it's not worth it. glad I could help😊

i agree with@iheartriley, it sounds like he's the problem

Yes, it doesn't matter if he pays. he is still physically under your roof. growing up I've lived with family before and always had to follow their rules.

@ce5ce Yes I get post pardum, I was not over my post pardum with my 6 month old then I get pregnant again on top of those already horrible emotions :( ..

@no3lastone4me, apartment buildings and housing have rules that you have go by even though your paying rent. your family well being comes first. if he don't like he can find some where else to live

dooooooonnnnt do it!!!!!! I just did the same thing and let my brother in law move in with us. worst decision ever. he doesn't clean at all and hasn't helped with one bill yet. not one. it's just going to be to hard when the baby comes.

You sure can...... If he lived in an apartment they have rules to follow. If he was renting from a real landlord I'm sure there would be rules to follow as well. Lol. Besides the more precise your rules the less likely he will want to stay, hopefully lol.