So would you call your MIL when you're in labor if she hasn't once texted you/called to check up on…

Call her AFTER... That way no stress while in labor. Lol if she gets an attitude about it, Say it was sudden and there was no time

I honestly wouldn't. My boyfriend would. I might if she actually liked me😂

@ftmbabyboy11, I plan on calling his step mom since they're 5 hours away and actually check up on us all the time. I don't care if she gets mad, she didn't help us with anything and judged us about everything we would get our daughter. @lovebuggg2016 I told him I'll call him and if he wants to call her he can but if she causes drama with his step mom, I'm kicking her out.

That's what I would do. I mean his parents don't even know yet because of how they will react.

Honestly that's how my boyfriends mom is, granted she lives in another state. But not once has she cared to talk to us or ask how the baby is. Sorry you're in that situation, but I'd just shoot her a text and tell her maybe after? I'm not sure only because I'm kinda in the same boat ya know.

@lovebuggg2016, I mean you're 18, you're an adult. There's nothing they can do about it. My mom was upset when she found out (I'm 19) but didn't try to convince us abortion was the way to go like his mom did..

@red1996, I think my boyfriend said he would tell her to come after or if she asks why I didn't call he'd say because I didn't want a lot of people and didn't want drama, you know?

Yeah, especially during that time. Like dealing with that while you're in labor is the last thing you seriously want! Hopefully it works out for ya girl :)

I don't think his mom would push that. She's just never really cared about me. My boyfriend and I have dated twice before and broken up, once for 6 months and the other a week and she didn't really like me the first time we dated.

@red1996, aw I hope things work out for you too! I might not even call anyone until after she's here, you know? so they wouldn't have to wait so long. But for sure my mom and sister will be with me.

@lovebuggg2016, yeah his mom didn't like me either when she first met me, for no reason and swore I got pregnant on purpose as if I forced him to have sex with me lol. 😂 but who cares, what matters is your little family. Don't worry about what they'll think or say :)

Thanks :) That's what I plan on doing! I don't want there to be a lot of people in the waiting room waiting to grab him out of my arms once he's born. Like I definitely want to be able to spend those sweet first couple hours with him that I just can't get back!