does anyone ever feel really bad about how they treat their SO? like...my hormones make me mad over the smallest things and then I freak out on him. most the time it's us arguing because he's a slob and I'm a neat freak...but he says I'm being mean just to be mean or treating him like a 3 year old. don't get me wrong, I know I am a bitch sometimes and I apologize but I just feel like one day he's gonna be like I'm not dealing with this anymore....