I honestly love love, I love to see people happy and I also love to have fun... But in the same…

I honestly love love, I love to see people happy and I also love to have fun... But in the same breath it annoys me when I see people being mean/negative towards themselves or others. I'm very big on motivation (not the sugar coating kind), so I'm always giving people motivating advice... Funny thing is my friends always think I'm being to harsh! Sugar coating is what has kept you in the position you are in! I'm not the sugar factory sorry...