Been scrubbing and cleaning the house today...mind u I'll be 27 weeks tomorrow...if I don't clean it…
Been scrubbing and cleaning the house today...mind u I'll be 27 weeks tomorrow...if I don't clean it no one will...I can't wait to move back out on my own...my family thinks I'm a housekeeper...they r comfortable with things being unorganized... and yes I am a clean freak with a slight case of OCD....but its stressful and very physical to have to scrub walls, stove, bath tiles to death because no one else will...and I def want my baby to come into a clean serene environment... I even assigned daily chores for everyone ...but do u think they do them ??? no...
Mari·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Same here! And then they get mad when I decide not to do it.
Nisha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
exactly... or get mad if I say something like the house needs to be cleaned I'm doing everything... I literally spend my weekends scrubbing and organizing different rooms in the house...and within days its back to chaos...its like I have 3 jobs instead of 2...so no weekends off
Nisha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@kelseys,
Mari·
Мама двоих (младенец)
my mil kitchen is disgusting, I hate a dirty kitchen, so I clean it and its messed up within 20minutes of her being home. everything in the house is disorganized no matter how much I clean and then her 30yr old daughter that lives upstairs brings her week old dirty dishes down for me or her mom to clean, which I refuse to clean anything from my sil or her 11yr old daughter
Nisha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
smh that's ridiculous @kelseys
Mari·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yup. I hope it getting better for you. I feel your pain
nanii·
@optimommy, my boyfriend & i have been doing the same thing