so my oldest kids dad text me a week ago saying sorry for all the disrespect that was said and…

so my oldest kids dad text me a week ago saying sorry for all the disrespect that was said and blamed it in his gf saying it was her even if it was why would I want my kids around her anyways and goes on to say its been three month since you've seen them well yea it has I been pregnant and you guys were threating to physically harm me why would I risk that carrying my child? you want to work something out to see them not only because you miss them but you want to avoid court and child support I feel safer going through court and getting child support I told him in a nice way I rather go through court because of the issue we've had just waiting for his disrespectful response which I told him I wouldn't expect anything less if he responded rudely....