I really dislike the way my husband acts when the kids aren't listening or doing what we ask of…

I really dislike the way my husband acts when the kids aren't listening or doing what we ask of them.. He babies them and I end up being the mean one Bcus he doesn't know when to put his foot down. I understand we don't see them everyday and he wants to be " the nice guy " all the time Bcus off that.. But it gets to a point where I'm like are you kidding me??? 😩😒