Ladies im really struggling with making a decision! So I'm just really not happy with my fiancé most…
Ladies im really struggling with making a decision! So I'm just really not happy with my fiancé most of the time. We fight and argue daily, he doesn't like when I leave the house, when he's sick (which is like constantly) he expects me to stay home from anything I have going on and take care of him. He gets upset if I take care of emma over him or If I need to take care of myself over him. Like last night emma woke up so I had to get her back to sleep and he was really really upset. Then around midnight he wanted me to take care of him and got upset and talked about killing himself when I told him I really needed to get some sleep since I worked early today and had to take care of emma when she woke up during the night. He has only taken care of her once during the night in the 5 months she's been home. And whenever I do leave the house I have to tell him where I'm going, exactly who I'm going with, exactly when I'll be home and he gets really upset if I'm late even if I let him know I'm running behind...idk what to do anymore...were in counseling but the counselor started pointing things out to him and it made his depression so much worse because now he feels like he can't do anything right and he thinks we're moving backwards in counseling
Karna Marie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I couldn't handle that.... I have no sympathy for selfish people who are inappreciative... Not a good environment for children.. Grown ass men can take care of themselves, if he is that sick he needs medical assistance and if he is really unable to take care of himself there are plenty of home health care programs to take care of him.
mickbaby·
Sounds like a form of abuse to me. You and your daughter should really get out of that situation- it's not healthy for anyone. I was with someone like that and all it did was make me depressed too. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, move on and if he says anything else unstable like he's going to kill himself, record it , save the texts, etc. You may need it in the future.
Arielle Warner·
Мама дочки-младенца
I agree with @mickbaby, you need to get out of that situation for your kids momma. He is being manipulative and mentally abusive to control you. Getting mad for taking care of your daughter over him, really? That's certifiably insane. This could turn into a way bigger issue later on. Time to be strong and do that you have to do!
ashley·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's just hard because he's dealing with depression and stuff too and I live with him and his parents...like he told me today he wrote a suicide note in his head to fall asleep but I can't deal with this stuff forever. And he doesn't get why he's not my number one now and emma is. He also keeps getting upset when I make plans with other people and idk what to do @arielle @mickbaby @karnawest
Arielle Warner·
Мама дочки-младенца
@ashbabash18, his battle with depression is very sad and unfortunate and I get why you'd feel guilty for moving on because of that but you can't make his struggles your life and hold yourself and more importantly your daughter back from a full life because of that. Sometimes you gotta do what you have to do and tell him he needs to get the help he needs but you can't be guilted into a situation that does nothing for you and actually hurts your child. Good luck momma