So I have a friend who's baby recently died of sids. I was talking about it with another friend and expressing to her how bad I feel and how I could never imagine the pain she is experiencing. And my friend says, "well the baby was only 2 months so it's not that bad" oh that really pissed me off and I went off on her because she feels that my friend will "get over it" because "the baby wasn't even old enough to have a personality" What a b****, like who says things like that, it would be hard to lose a child no matter what age, even women who miscarry or have an abortion will always miss that baby and think about it for the rest of their lives. Ugh some people are so stupid.
Omg that's so heartbreaking my heart goes out to her and her family!! I had two miscarriages last year and and my boyfriend said basically the same thing because I miscarried early on and he didn't really understand and hadn't connected with the baby since it was so early.
thats not cool my lil cousin die like that. its still hard. she isn't a good friend at all. praying for ur friend n family.
Yeah, I had to cut her off after that, I don't understand how she could be so apathetic @shortiebs
@dkk, she supposedly survived... But she's incredibly lucky. They arrested the lady on the spot she tried fake crying (saw the video) it was sickening...
@dkk, I'm sorry to say but people like that should not even have kids if they are like that... How sad. Here locally where I am there was a lady that left her baby in the car at Walmart...mind you the temp without heat index was 95 and they said it was 138 degrees in that car after 10 minutes... Poor baby was in it for 45 so it was even hotter... She took her preteen daughter into the store but not her baby?? And she parked at the end of the parking lot? She tried killing her... I absolutely hate stories like this especially now being pregnant.
She didn't want her baby though, the whole time she was pregnant she would say awful things about her baby. She wanted an abortion but her parents convinced her not to. But still idk who says such awful things about a baby. :( @datnavajogirl
thats messed up. some people are just mean. it would be hard no matter how old the baby is.
@mariceladez, I'm sorry to hear that, every baby makes an impact in this world no matter what size or age.