Okay ladies I need help.
Premie baby girl born 6 weeks early ( actual due date was August 11)
I have a baby girl July 3rd. She will be 1 month this Friday. She is breastfeeding. She is doing all that she is supposed to.. My problem if it is one.. People keep telling me that I shouldn't hold her as much. I have a bassinet for but she doesn't seem to like that. I swaddle her but she doesn't like to be swaddle. The doctor told me that I should swaddle her below her arms so she still feels secure. I stopped sleeping in my bed and I started sleeping on the couch with her on my chest.. Or in her vibrating chair.. But most likely she is on my chest.. I honestly think she doesn't like to be cold. She enjoys my closeness and body heat. She still can't maintain her body temperature quite yet. Which is another reason I let her use my body heat. I just don't want her to be spoiled.. If I put her down she will sleep in her chair for Maybe and hour and a half... If she sleeps on my chest or me sitting up with her on my chest using a boppy or just cuddled up against me.. She will sleep for 3 .. 3.3 or. 4 hours if I nod off too. I just want to know any ways where I can trick her into thinking she is being held.. Or ways to help her get a good nights sleep in.. I don't want her to feel like I don't care.. But she likes being close to whoever is holding her.. She doesn't like to be cradled she like her belly against your belly. Please help.. Am i spoiling her? Google of fours says it's not spoiling.. My doctor gave me some suggestions.. But what do you guys think???