Soooo I'm pretty sure someone is going to calls out for being an ungrateful bitch but whatever... So…

😳 I would be like my baby my color choice and I will wear whatever I want! My dad told me I was being a little kid when I didn't agree with one of my stepmoms choices but really it's your shower and you only get a few in your life so it should be how you want it to be

@trezelle if she's paying for it and you guys are friends just go with it because at the end of the day it's less stress for you and more time focusing on the fact that your baby will be set for when they come

I understand I felt the same way bc My friend throwing me one also and she don't want my input at all. I was feeling a little upset but then I realized I wasn't going to have one anyways plus I don't have to come out my pocket at all so Im just letting her do it all and later on she better not ask for my help bc I'm not.

If she is paying then.... Yea let her have her fun lol. Except if it comes out ratchet i would say something

@ak16, I guess I'm controlling or something... I atleast want to know what is going to be done lol.. I'm also not used to people doing things for me so it's kinda weird. @simplyfirstbaby @destin25 and @shortiebs lol I might as well. She has a strong personality and she can be controlling at times but I know it's coming from a good place. I am going to just bring some of my own stuff the day off though. I've been to her parties she doesn't really go out. So I'm scared this is going to be one of those cheap soda, plastic plates and sandwich "parties"... Blehh

Lmaaooo well presents make me happy so as long as you look good and your baby registry is popping @trezelle I feel like it'll be a good day

@simplyfirstbaby, she told me only 20 people are invited and half of that 20 is my family. I'm giving her names o people to invite. I barely have friends lmao

Either way I'm just gonna go have fun. I hope I get stuff for my baby but if I don't such is life. That's the reason why id isn't want to throw one myself! Fear that no one shows up or they do and bring nothing. @simplyfirstbaby

@trezelle good thing u can make a registry that way if the party itself not up to what u like atleast u can get the gifts u picked. And I'm sure being around friends and family it's gonna be great

@destin25, I keep getting told most people don't buy stuff of the registry... Blehh. I feel so weird about this whole thing.

😘😘😘 I'm sure it'll be better than what you imagine mama! Walk in there like 💃🏾💃🏾 and have a good time! @trezelle

@simplyfirstbaby, lol hahhaha I'll try. It's in 4 weeks! 😁

@trezelle lol chips and dip. Be honest with yourself. If u know your friends style, you know what to expect. If you are okay with her style then leave it to her. Or nicely remind her of your taste. She is your friend and this is a big day you are allowed to keep it real. Be honest. Because if you get there and hate it then she will be offended and you will be upset and disappointed

Lol my mom and sis are doing mines. I haven't been able to have any input but I got to pick my outfit!

@shortiebs, that's why I didn't want one in the first place but she volunteered and I didn't want to say no and make her feel bad. She's been going through a lot so the distraction will be good for her. I'm not gonna butt in much. I just need a few things changed.

@modifiedmermaid, it's terrifying to me because I don't normally hand over control to other people. I'm scared it's a wack shower and everyone makes fun of me or something like that. Lol... I'm a lame. A controlling lame lol.

Lol omg you sound JUST like me! I am a control freak. I have lists for everything and I like everything done a certain way, people being punctual and all lol. I'm going crazy not being in control.

@modifiedmermaid, lol hahahha. I've been working on the control freak side of me. Lol

Lol it's in my nature. Girl I give my input and they like see this why we don't tell you nothin. 😂😂😂😂 I am like but I really want these balloons, I want macaroons lmao my cake needs to be perfect, I want fruit salad no grapes 😂😩