Funny story. So I took the stool softener a in the hospital and did what I needed to do to get out. My first full day home I needed to go again and I was scared. Typical FTM fears; I thought I would tear again or it would hurt. So my dad bought me Dolcolax (sp?) and I took two! I say for hours nothing happened. So we left to get lunch and run an errand. On the way home I felt the urge to go. Then we got in traffic! There was no were to pull over to. No where to hop out at. I tried my best to hold hit and before I knew it I popped my pants in the back seat of my then fiance's car! And it was a lot. And I just had to sit in it until we got home. Worst day of my life! I will know better now!