So I'm coplanning my baby shower and I'm getting so pissed off fr. This is fucking dumb. ✋

Why what's wrong

I texted my bff like 4 days ago and told her to tell me what I needed to get from the store, and she was like "wait till I come over to talk about it" then she texted me today and was like "Also, you do realize it is 5 weeks away. So we kind of have to get this shit done.

Like invite everybody and buy everything and make sure we can get the pavilion and the food and stuff and the games" wtf I've BEEN trying to get this shit done!! I'm not a last minute person! And DF likes to wait until the last minute for everything and I feel like I'm not getting much support from him at all. He's the only one with a job and I need his help with some stuff, and he acts like this is something we can just do in a week. I'm just stressed out and now my friend is talking shit on df saying he's not ready for a baby mentally blah blah. It's all just getting to me finally 😞 sorry this is so long. @athenas_mommy

I'm so sorry hunny!! I totally understand how you feel! Practically the same thing happened to me with my shower and then the day of I was stressed running around doing the last minute things that never got done like I asked. I literally broke down and bawled my eyes out an hour before the shower. I really hope it gets better for you!!!

Thank you @bryawna13 I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I wish I was able to just have it thrown for me! Either I'm too picky or people don't care enough. I'm really upset because this was my friends idea, she said she'd have it all covered. Now it's "we need to do this, can you ask your family for money to help out, jason needs to help too and he's not ready for a baby if he doesn't" like who tf are you? Anyways, did you at least end up enjoying your shower?

Girl I totally get it! My friend offered to plan the whole thing and it was her job to pay for the decorations and stuff. (We shouldn't have to put out money anyways!) I have to help because I am just as picky and worry things won't get done. Well I was on her the whole process about getting things done to the point I could tell she was annoyed so then it ended up that the day of I was helping make center pieces and she asked my fiancé to pay for the balloons and candies for the games and he bought all the prizes 😒 I was so upset because none of that should have been on us. We literally can't even pay bills and had to use that money for it. He did it and told me later that he paid because he wanted everything perfect for me. It was complete hell honestly and I felt like the only time I sat down during the shower was when I ate and I sat away from everyone just to have some peace. I really hope yours goes better and you get to sit the whole day and relax! My shower did have about 60 people show up anyway so that is probably part of why I was so exhausted. And that chick needs to calm her ass. Talking like that bout your man. 😒 she wanted to do this its on her not him

@mommabear2015,

Awh I'm so sorry I hate last minute stuff too . So I know the feeling. You should try sitting down with your bf & let him know exactly how you feel & everything. Let him know shit can't be put off til last minute cause that stresses you out way too much & Stress can send you into early labor

@bey awna13, yes girl! That is y exact situation. We do not have the money for this shit. Like why did you offer to do it if you couldn't. She's so negative about literally ANY idea I have. Anything I've ever offered up, she tells me why I shouldn't or why it's stupid. I didn't realize this was YOUR day? My bad. 😒 she was saying df isn't ready for a baby because he's a last minute planner for everything. He's going to be a damn good father and he just sucks at planning! No one can change that. Don't talk smack on him. Then say "no offense". 🔫🔫🔫 math enas_mommy I should do that. I mean today was really my breaking point and he went to work so I didn't want to try to squeeze that convo in beforehand, but you're right I gotta tell him. I feel like I'm the only one taking this mess on 😑👊😓