so I don't know what to do.... I want to be with my babies father but he isn't willing to move to…

so I don't know what to do.... I want to be with my babies father but he isn't willing to move to Tennessee where we already have a 3 bedroom house and at first he promised we'd go out there least for vacation 2-3 weeks now he's saying 2 months we are supposed to have a clean slate but I can't help but think its like all the other promises he made and didn't keep and got pissed when I went anyways without him.... I also said I'd just go by myself with our son and he says he doesn't trust me to come back ....