idk what to do I want my mom in my life but I hate my father. they are still married and I want her…
idk what to do I want my mom in my life but I hate my father. they are still married and I want her to see my little girl when she comes in September. But I don't want my dad anywhere near her. He's not the best father of the year. he's done some pretty horrible stuff. things I can forgive but not forget. But any who idk if I should include my mom cause she always backs him up. she defends him for everything. that and right now I'm severely pissed at my father. I know my sister would wanna see my baby girl but as for going down and staying overnight I won't do it. He's that bad. I just wish I knew what to do
missing9user·
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Is he a molester or something ? That's deep .
Nichole Schaffer·
yeah he did that plus he is horrible he use to torture me and my sister growing up. He's never been to jail but he lies about everything and cusses out my mom on a daily basis
missing9user·
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Aww that's sad . Yes it sounds like yall need some inner healing as a family .
Bryawna Farmer·
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If your mom not seeing your baby is what it takes to keep him away from your baby then that's what you have to do. It's her own fault at this point. You have to do what is right for your family.
Nichole Schaffer·
I agree it's just sad I mean I have her on Facebook but every time when I see her in person she barrades me. like if I get something to eat she'll say oh your getting fat and it's like abuse all over again. my husband has already cut them out of our lives and I thank him for that just I hate that the choice is what it is. it's either put my child in harms way or cut all ties and I'd rather cut all ties than go through the whole thing all over again
Ariel·
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Do what you gotta do to keep your lil girl safe!
Nichole Schaffer·
that's what I do if I put her in that situation I'd never forgive myself and it's not like she doesn't have family. she has my extended family they may not be blood but at least they are kind and won't harm her. my family is like a mentally deranged zoo. I'd rather keep in contact with my mom on Facebook but that's as far as I'm gonna take it cause I don't want her hurt like me and my sister