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LABOR STORY PART TWO: Friday June 19 2015. I woke up with slight period type cramps. at first I thought nothing of it…

LABOR STORY PART TWO: Friday June 19 2015. I woke up with slight period type cramps. at first I thought nothing of it and called it round ligament pain and said it'll pass. I tried going back to sleep. after tossing and turning I couldn't fall asleep. the pain was getting a little sharper but nothing too unbearable. that Saturday I was going to be 37weeks along. I went downstairs from my room and told my mom about my pains. she never had any labor as both my sister and I were csection. my anxiety started to increase. around 10:30am, I told my mom that I think I need to go to the hospital. the doctor said I still have a while, but if the baby wanted to come, he wasn't going to stop it. my mom and I hopped in the car and we were off. one thing about my mom is she's a law abiding citizen. on our way to the hospital she went the speed limit. *facepalm* I could be in hardcore real labor and she's going the speed limit! -.- my mom drops me off at the front and I walk in to the front desk. I tell the lady I think I'm in labor. she says, "oh god!" and gets a man with a wheelchair to wheel me to the birthing center. once there, I fill out paperwork and answer a bunch of questions. they hook me up to machines to monitor the baby and ultimately bring in an ultrasound machine to see where my little guy was. next thing I know, the doctor checks my cervix and I'm 2-3cm dilated and 50% or so effaced. he went to call my doctor to see what he wanted to do. once he came back he told me that I was experiencing "relaxed labor". yes, my contractions are 5-8minutes apart, but my son could come today or two weeks from today. I was told to go home.

...to be continued...

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

How long did you go through labor? I went through 14 hours of labor when I had Oliver. Would have been longer if the…

How long did you go through labor? I went through 14 hours of labor when I had Oliver. Would have been longer if the doctors hadn’t given me meds to speed up the labor. I was given an epidural, my blood pressure went down to 80 and they had to give three epidural shots to get me stable again and they had to stop it for 20 minutes because the doctor was out at lunch. 🙄 so by the time I gave birth I felt everything

!!!!LABOR STORY!!!! Saturday at 1AM, lost my mucus plug/bloody show, and I was freaking out! A couple of hours later I…

!!!!LABOR STORY!!!! Saturday at 1AM, lost my mucus plug/bloody show, and I was freaking out! A couple of hours later I had cramping, but felt like BH just a little stronger. They came and went, but felt stronger with each hour. Didn't sleep that whole night! I called the midwife at my hospital and told her I lost it and was having really bad cramping and she told me I was fine and was prob just having BH contractions. The next day I was having what I thought were strong BH contractions every 10-15 mins, but the new City Target had opened across the st from my MiL house in Fenway, (go Red Sox! ⚾ ) and I had to coupon (it is a big coupon week!) so, I went to Target and couponed, hurled over in pain every 10 minutes, coupons in hand 😂😂😢 Went home, contractions were really intense and came every 3-4mins, so around 3am I called the hospital again and said I'm having really bad pains, and I can barely walk. They take my breath away and I think I'm in labor. Again, she said I would be screaming and unable to be so "chatty" if I was in labor, and to stay home and go to sleep. Obviously I couldn't sleep with these killer contractions every 2-3 mins now! Monday morning, July 27 contractions were now every 1-2 minutes, intense like someone was rilling out my insides, I tried rocking on the glider in the nursery, tried soaking in the bathtub, but I was in tears from the pain and from lack of sleep for two nights now, so I told hubby if these aren't labor pains I'm not waiting until I'm actually in labor. Let's to go the hospital and get the Epidural (my plan was to go natural) and he's like ok let's go. Arrived at the hospital around 10:15, got admitted, sat around moaning while the nurses told me relax, you'll catch your breath, we will get you a room in a minute. Meanwhile I'm in a wheelchair doubled over barely able to breathe. I thought I was going to pass out from the pain! Got into a room, they listened to baby's heartbeat, and midwife came in to check for dilation. "Oh my god I don't even feel much cervix. You're 9cm dilated honey let's go push!" I almost passed out at that point! I told her I can't do this it hurts soooo bad. But we got into a room, I pushed for the longest ten minutes of my life and out he came! I tore and got stitches, but not from end to end thank god. Still sore and uterus is cramping but everything else is going well. Breastfeeding is so hard! We will get there though! Third night of no sleep so don't mind the bags under my eyes hahaha And yes I am going to hunt down that darn midwife who told me to stay at home cuz I was fine and not in labor! Smh I had a CVS coupon trip planned for yesterday, but I'll take Ezra any day! So glad I pulled through with my plan though. It feels so empowering! Not saying next time I'd do it again 😂😂😂