just wondering.. has anyone else's man been less helpful/considerate (or just different on some way)…

Yeah our lad thinks I can still do everything I used to be able to ... But now I'm a whale 🐳 so find it really difficult to do stuff that he expects me to do xxx

Yeah my husband just expects me to carry on like usual. doesn't understand the extra tiredness etc. was exactly the same last time. thinks I'm just exaggerating or moaning. After labour he was totally different....really helpful and concerned about me . and also more attracted to me than ever before (odd I know haha) I hope that this pregnancy he would be more understanding becsuse he's seen labour etc before. But no 😕 they just don't understand how it feels and they don't understand all the changes in your body xx

When taylor was born and he held him for the first time he goes 'oh he's heavy' I was like yes I know I've been carrying him around plus placenta and water and you just kept telling me to stop moaning 😤

glad its not just mine. im struggling to do everything that needs doing and if i ask for help i get "in a minute" hours later i mention it again and its like ive asked him to climb mount everest in a hurricane 🙈 bcoz im high risk and have loadsa medical isaues anyway, i just thought he'd wanna take some of the strain. these men need to go to some sort of centre where they can spend a few says in a pregnancy simulator lmao @jodipatton @tuftyturtle xx

I think that when a lads is pregnant their lad should be too .. And there bellies grow and they get all the sickness and then as soon as the lass has her baby the lads symptoms go too lol imaging that xx

pahaha i dont think they'd cope @jodipatton some men spend days in bed with man flu, imagine them with pregnancy tehehe xx

I'm sorry to hear this ladies but my man is an absolute diamond. He has been amazing all pregnancy. 😍

ah @jade_17 im glad to hear it lol high five to ur man 😀

Ha our lad is alright sometimes then he forgets that I'm too fat to do stuff lmao xx

yh I've found that with my boyfriend. I get its all a big change but I have to deal with it, and sort myself out it just seems like he's just not quite there. just hoping he grows up a bit when she gets here when it really is real that we have a baby.

My husband is good around the house and with chores. He's not lazy or immature. I just get fed up with the fact that he doesn't understand what it feels like to be pregnant. but I guess even women have no idea until they've done it

mine goes through stages, some days hes faffing round me and drying my hair etc. other days its an effort to get him to do anything at all, even make a cuppa tea. but he forgets i cant always pick up the slave bcoz im genuinely too ill/tired/pregnant. and it really bugs me when he says hes too tired lol i just want him to experience one night of peeing, leg cramps, heartburn, being too whale-like to turn over and generally uncomfortable 😉😂 lmao xx