how do you ladies feel about breastfeeding. If I choose not to will that be bad parenting?

Nope

I'm not breastfeeding this baby . I breast fed my last babies tho .

No that don't make you a bad parent. everyone has their on choice on breast feeding. I didn't do it with my kids and I'm no less of a mother. I salute the moms that do, cause breast feeding is hard

It's what u feel is best for u. For me I feel more comfortable bottle fed my children and will be doing the same with my unborn son. Definitely doesnt make u a bad parent if u do or don't.

@threekings101415 ugh everyone's in my ear saying different things! it's so stressful. I'm leaning towards formula. what formulas do you recommend?

Of course not! you choose what you want!

Best advice I can give is do your research on both and don't let people influence you or talk down to you about doing one or the other because at the end of the day it's your choice, your baby and your body...

enfamil and Gerber is the best.