So my mom told me that if I decided that I didn't wanna be with him anymore I don't have to wait until I finish school (which WAS my plan if shit don't get better) she told me I can get a weekend job like Friday night, Saturday, & Sunday and she will watch Pai while I'm working so that I can still go to school and not have to put Pai in daycare...not really sure what I'm gunna do yet- I'm so scared that if we split up that he will always take Pai to his mamas when he has her without me around BUT I don't want his mama around her and right now he agrees with me but if we split up will he still agree or will he take her there since he's never had to care for her himself...lots of thinking to do