So my mom told me that if I decided that I didn't wanna be with him anymore I don't have to wait until I finish school (which WAS my plan if shit don't get better) she told me I can get a weekend job like Friday night, Saturday, & Sunday and she will watch Pai while I'm working so that I can still go to school and not have to put Pai in daycare...not really sure what I'm gunna do yet- I'm so scared that if we split up that he will always take Pai to his mamas when he has her without me around BUT I don't want his mama around her and right now he agrees with me but if we split up will he still agree or will he take her there since he's never had to care for her himself...lots of thinking to do
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it's always best to go somewhere with no distractions(like arguments) when you need time to think about stuff. I'm here if you need to talk anymore mama
@firstbaby_girl, exactly I'm in no rush to make a decision I may head back down to my grandparents to visit them and have a chance to think
you take the time you need and do what you feel is right for you and pai
@firstbaby_girl, I haven't really decided what I'm gunna do yet
that's so stupid. I don't get why guys are like that. Im sorry mama. I was hoping things would get better for you
@firstbaby_girl, were constantly fighting over sex and EVERY argument boils down to sex and I'm over it...
what's going on mama? sounds like things went down hill again :/
@wyatts_mommy_0106, that's good to know ☺️
I believe a notarized doucment is a legal finding agreement cause when my mom dual drived a truck with my dad she had a notarized agreement saying if we were hurt the babysitter was our legal guardian for the time and it was accepted at the drs and stuff so I think so. I'd deff try that so y'all can try and have this agreement without the courts involved
@wyatts_mommy_0106, I'm not really sure what we would do since I don't have the $ for a lawyer do you know if a notarized document would be legally binding?...I wouldn't want to keep her from him but I wouldn't want him having her around people I don't know or don't trust
If y'all split are y'all going to have a judge make a custody arrangement? cause if so if u can have the judge make that apart of the agreement Pai isn't allowed to be around his mom but if not there really is no way to keep him.from taking Pai over to his moms house its gonna be a hard decision but u have to do what is best for u and Pai
@firstbaby_girl, thanks dear💕