A natural birth is what I have my heart and mind set on. So many negative people are trying to change it! Whhhyyy?!

I been off my birth control pills since April this year

My hospital officially posted on their website that no spouses are aloud in during birth/post partum. So guess who’s gonna have to freaking look into a midwife for vbac tomorrow 🙃 not an option to have my fiancé miss the whole birth of our son. Freaking crazy.

Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

QUESTION -- so since I won't be having a baby shower or anything, I'm set on a birth announcement. My question is, how soon after giving birth can I have the baby photographed for it?