Non pregnancy related but I need some advice ladies... My ex was emotionally/mentally and at times…
Non pregnancy related but I need some advice ladies... My ex was emotionally/mentally and at times physically abusive when me and him were together, I discovered he has recently started going out with another girl through Facebook. I have the opportunity to probably message her and warn her... But I don't know whether I should just let it be, or if I should go through with it... He has a lot of mental health issues etc, and I think she's unaware of this. I just don't want someone else to go through the same pain I have... I just feel awful really.. What's your guys opinion? My life is great now which I am thankful for... Just not sure if I can go on everyday knowing this could happen to her. Granted I know I can't warn every woman he comes in contact with but still...
sassymccrum·
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It's nice of you to want to help but she probably won't listen and will be rude until she learns it herself
Lisa·
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I will say since I was kinda in the same relationship with a guy. he actually treated her so much better then when he was with me. I wouldn't even try to warn her since she might just accuse you of not being happy or you havent moved on.. just a thought
Celeste·
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Brutally honest mind your own business Hun
Celeste·
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Let her find out on her own , I understand why you might care but why do you care ? Just keep being happy
Megan·
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@ftmbabyboy11, I have been there too.... I would leave it alone, she will think you are a jealous ex trying to break them up or something like that. I know you want to help tho, very nice on your part :)
Victoria·
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I'd personally let her understand for herself. Shes probably going to think your some crazy person who wants him back. The other person typically doesn't listen.
Chelsie·
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@sassymccrum, @eeniemeenie5683 that was another thought that had came to mind as well... She may be the type of person to maybe not understand what I am trying to warn her of and she might be in denial... Because he's a narcissist and a pathological liar so my efforts might be dismissed and she could tell him and it will cause problems.
Ana·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)
She would probably think you're just jealous and she might ignore you and not listen,though i do think someone should warn her about him, its good that you care, but I honestly don't think she'll listen to you. Maybe someone you know should tell her and warn her about this hope she understands.
Ashley·
yeah I would definitely let her find out on her own. if my bf ex girl hit me up saying some negative things I would tell her to fuck off lol
Ashley·
who knows, she might like that type of treatment. they might be perfect for each other lol
Chelsie·
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I agree with you ladies, Thanks for the advice, it helps give me another perspective!
Brenda·
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Leave it alone, my ex use to hit me an once I left he would always threaten to kill me an whatever guy I was with... Once I found out he had a new girl she requested me on fb an actually told her abt him. She thought I was saying all that crap cuz I wanted them to break up an go after him -.- now she's pregnant with his baby an sure enough beats her like I warned her... Oh well she actually wanted to fight me for him like if he was even worth a fight lmao I would never fight over a man