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Amanda
Amanda
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Ladies I'm really heartbroken right now and I'm really at a loss as for what to do. 😫😫😫 I really…

Ladies I'm really heartbroken right now and I'm really at a loss as for what to do.

😫😫😫 I really feel like giving up but I know that's not a choice but I really don't know what is.

😫😫😫

The house we were supposed to be buying fell through. I have no place to go. My mom wants me to stay with her but I absolutely can't. I feel so unwelcome. So unwanted. It's such an uncomfortable living situation. Plus here I have to deal with so much more stress from other things that I frankly just don't have the energy to post about. Unfortunately due to my mental health issues I tend to wind up hospitalized when I get to stressed out and I'm really upset because I feel like that's what is about to happen but I have no way of stopping it.

Hubby's mad because I'm the one who made the call to move away from his hometown and to Cleveland. He wants to find a place back in Akron but I know I'm even more unhappy there.

I'm gonna loose my cat 😭😭😭😭 the girl who is watching him is moving out of state and can only keep him till the end of the month my parents won't let me bring him here with me and literally nobody else is willing to take him.

I have no home. I don't know what to do. I feel like a complete failure being an unmarried 22 year old pregnant living in her mom's attic. I have no right to bring a baby into all my mess.

I absolutely don't know what to do. I don't feel like I have any way of supporting a baby or even giving her a safe place to live 😟 I love our daughter and we want her more than anything else in the world but I feel like it would be really wrong of us to keep her in this situation when there are so many wonderful people who want a baby who can give her so much more than we can.

I really don't know what to do. I want my baby. But we can't even take care of ourselves.

And I'm trying to find other solutions but do far I keep hitting dead ends. I just feel so stupid.

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I don't mind if you comment on this but please don't just put calm down it'll be ok. If I could just calm down I would already. Not trying to be rude I'm just so sick of being told that. I just needed to put my thoughts somewhere

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audreysmama

Tiana

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Just take a deep breath mama everything always has a way of working out just remember that 😊 everything may seem like it's falling apart but know it's just falling into place.. Everything's gotta get messy before it can be organized.. Sometimes moving back in with someone just so you can get on your feet is just what you need (that's what I'm doing, moving in with my grandma for a month to save and move back out on our own) your gunna be an amazing mama don't ever question that and once your baby gets here you won't even care about all the outside stress you baby will be the only thing that will matter ❤️

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islandftm

Honey

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well now since u don't want the calm down ill give it to you straight. you've made a baby. maybe not at the best time but it's here we can't feel sorry for ourselves. sit down n make a plan. how many single mothers have turned an idea into a multi million dollar company. look for simple jobs you can do while pregnant. fill out surveys babysit etc save up and get a place good enough for u and your family. my child's father isn't even speaking to me so you at least have some of a support system way more than me I'm doing it all alone. my advice cry your last tear put on your big girl panties and put some plans into action. feeling sorry for yourself and all that isn't going to make your situation better.

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islandftm

Honey

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you're not the first person to have a baby in less than ideal conditions n won't be the last. you got this!

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