I was hell bent on being a "one and done" mom. Took 3 years to change my mind, but I was an only child && my mum was very happy to only have me. It just depends. I would say if you're happy with one then that's perfect! If you feel like there's room in your heart to grow, consider having another one. There is no right answer. It's what you feel is best in your heart and what's best for your first born.
@boymama, @kimberlyyyy thanks girls! The thing is I start college next month and I just really want to focus hard in school . I have my son and being a mother isn't hard but it is time consuming. And I feel like I don't want other babies but then I don't want my son to feel alone or such. its so hard to decide. 😲
Your son can always make friends in the future and be a social butterfly and never feel lonely. It wasn't too bad being an only child. I got all of my parent's love and attention. Lol. For my son I didn't want to give him a sibling, but my fiancé is SO good with my son && he loves kids so we decided we would expand the family. He loves my son to death but he also wanted a mini him. There's a billion factors into having another kid && if you're happy where you're at and you have plans, then keep to it and make the best out of focusing on your one and only and after you're done with school you can decide on whether or not you're ready for another. Don't feel bad for only having one.
missing119user·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Of course that is not bad, do what makes you happy!
Kimberly ·
I was hell bent on being a "one and done" mom. Took 3 years to change my mind, but I was an only child && my mum was very happy to only have me. It just depends. I would say if you're happy with one then that's perfect! If you feel like there's room in your heart to grow, consider having another one. There is no right answer. It's what you feel is best in your heart and what's best for your first born.
Shawnee·
Мама сына-младенца
@boymama, @kimberlyyyy thanks girls! The thing is I start college next month and I just really want to focus hard in school . I have my son and being a mother isn't hard but it is time consuming. And I feel like I don't want other babies but then I don't want my son to feel alone or such. its so hard to decide. 😲
missing119user·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
There is no rush to make a decision, you have time. You can focus on school and discuss it further with your partner in the future.
Kimberly ·
Your son can always make friends in the future and be a social butterfly and never feel lonely. It wasn't too bad being an only child. I got all of my parent's love and attention. Lol. For my son I didn't want to give him a sibling, but my fiancé is SO good with my son && he loves kids so we decided we would expand the family. He loves my son to death but he also wanted a mini him. There's a billion factors into having another kid && if you're happy where you're at and you have plans, then keep to it and make the best out of focusing on your one and only and after you're done with school you can decide on whether or not you're ready for another. Don't feel bad for only having one.