so pissed off!!!! someone offered to throw my shower for me cause she said it doesn't look good if I…

so pissed off!!!! someone offered to throw my shower for me cause she said it doesn't look good if I throw it....me and my husband have bought all the food all the sweets and cake I've hand made all my decor and favors in which we also purchased all she is paying for is the venue in which cause of me I got her a amazing price I me and my husband has spent more on the other things then what the venue coated nvm the fact that today was the day to do last running around and dress hunting and she is completely ghost smh can she really say she is throwing us a shower???? ummmm hell no!!!! ugh and my husband keeps telling me don't stress how not